Texture Tuesday | To My love

Dear Scott,

I have been thinking a lot about you, about us with this year being our five year anniversary, us turning 30, and beginning our family.  Thinking of what the last five years have been to be married to you, what the last 10 years have been like sharing my heart with you.  So I have been thinking about why I love you.  It is hard to put in to words, but I am going to try.  The main reason is because you are just you.  We have really “grown up” together since our love started at just 19. So here are some of the reasons why I love you:

I love you because you love me, entirely, without doubts.

I love you because we get to have a slumber party every night.

I love you because you want the best for me.

I love you because you believe in my dreams.

I love you for your patience.

I love you for working hard for our family.

I love you and your zingers.

I love you for making our first house, our home.

I love you for loving my family.

I love you for loving your family.

I love you for letting me cry on your shoulder.

I love you for always being my strength, my rock, my constant.

I love you for loving our son, our son that is the luckiest boy in the world to have you as a father.

I love you for feeling my hurt and hating it.

I love knowing that you will protect me and our family.

I love that are willing to stick up for me, and believe in me, even if sometimes you really shouldn’t.

I love you and your loyalty to me, your family, and your friends.

I love that your heart belongs to God.

I love that you are my best friend.

I love you for making me laugh, everyday.

I love you for making sure WE are a priority.

I really could continue to go on and on.  Because I love you, all of you, for all of these things and so so much more.  I cannot wait to see where our life takes us.  I know our life is a little crazy right now, but our next chapter is about to begin.  And it is going to be amazing!

Love you, mean it!

Rebecca

***Photography done by the amazing Chesley Summar Photography!

June 20, 2013 - 2:22 pm

Vicki Graham - Love to both of you! It’s been a joy watching you both become who you are together. Blessings for much future happiness. Thanks for sharing.

Texture Tuesday | Our fun weekend!

This weekend, Scott and I flew down to visit my sister and her family in sunny Florida! We always make every effort to make sure that we see each other every couple of months.  The kids grow and change so quickly, and it is super important for me for Blair and Will to know me/us, even if they do live in southwest Florida.  Family is our priority, and I am still hoping and praying that they will get the opportunity to move back up this way!

This weekend we had a special occasion though for our trip! Well two actually! One was Friday.  Scott and I  celebrated our 5 year wedding anniversary! It is hard to believe it has already been 5 years.  I know it is still new and few, but to us, it is exciting! The second thing we got to celebrate was my niece and nephew got baptized at their church in Florida! It was so special being there for it.  We wouldn’t have missed it for the world.  Just one more way that we showed them we are there for them and support them! Take a look at just a few of my sweet family!

Will, relaxed, easy going…

Blair… Not so happy to be in front of the church with someone putting water on her head!

But we did end the day with a quick family picture! It was all that we could handle/manage though:) 

Later that day, after some good long naps, we were able to make a couple of quick pictures! 

Hopefully next month, when the family is up for their visit to Tennessee, we will be able to get more pictures of these fun kiddos!!

Lebanon, TN Couples Photographer | Meleia & Will {Couples}

I know I have said it before, but I love photographing couples in love:)Couples newly engaged, couples already married and celebrating anniversaries, and couples married many, many years! All of it makes me smile! Fortunately, I have has the opportunity to photograph couples who are already married, still happily in love, and want to document this time in their lives! It makes me oh so happy!! Meleia and Will are no different! Meleia had been talking to me for several months about doing some pictures of just the two them for their three year anniversary, and I am so glad we got to make it happen! We had a great time out on the farm, cows and all! Take a look at my favorites!

Texture Tuesday | An Update

So we have been getting a lot of questions lately asking if we have received any news on our little guy and when do we expect to bring him home! I realized we haven’t given much of an update since we announced that our son is in South Korea, and a lot has happened in the last month.  We love that so many people are loving, thinking, and praying for us and our baby. So here it is:)

So originally, when we accepted the referral for our little guy, we thought we could travel earliest July and the latest Octoberish.  We would travel to Soeul, South Korea for one week.  While we were there we would get to meet our son, and on that same trip get to travel back home with him! However, we just learned a few weeks ago, that the regulations have changed.  Instead, we will now have to make two trips over to South Korea.  The first trip we will get to meet our Davis, have a couple of visits with him, attend court for a 7-10 minute interview, then return home for approximately three weeks.  After about three weeks, we will get a notice saying that we can return to South Korea to bring our Davis home! A day we are so anxiously awaiting!

We also got news that since S. Korea was trying to decide these changes, their court system got backed up. So while in the beginning we have a time frame that we would get to travel to meet our son in 3-6 months, now we have not been given any time frame.  Nothing… No one can tell us anything because the whole system looks new.

SO, that is part one of the update! Not great news… but he is still OUR son, and nothing is going to change that! We just have a little longer wait to get him and we will have to make two trips to Seoul.  So we are focusing on that positive.  He is still OUR son, and God has made him perfect for us to love on him.

Another good thing is that yesterday we got our I-600 approval! Which means all the US side of the paperwork is DONE! All our information will be sent to S. Korea today (which means they will get it tomorrow since they are 14 hours a head of us!).  So once they receive it, we can get processed to get in line to have a court date.

So here is another not so great news.  Once our agency, SWS, gets our information, we get ZERO feedback or updates from them.  Nothing. Nada.  We go into silent mode.  We won’t hear when it is received, when it gets sent to family court, when the Ministry approves it, nothing.  The next notice we will get is when we get to travel for our court date! And we have no.idea.when.that.will.be. Talk about God teaching me who is in control.  And I know it is not me! We are still hoping and praying that we will get to travel later this fall.  But right now, it is out of our hands and out of our control.

We appreciate all the love and support from all of you! So while we wait in this period of silence, we really would appreciate your continued prayers for our baby.  Pray that our baby feels loved, is healthy, and continues to grow and thrive.  Pray for us that we can find peace and pray that we can use this time to prepare to become parents.  Pray that the court system processes our paperwork fast so we can bring our baby boy home SOON.  So until then, until we get that call that we get to travel.  The call to travel half way across the world to meet our son.  We don’t have a lot left to share.  But trust me.  When we get that call, I will be shouting it from the mountain top!!! So until them, please continue to pray for all three of us!! We very much need it!

 (please excuse the not so great picture! Quick iphone picture of a little something going in Davis’s room!) 

June 4, 2013 - 3:57 pm

Bethany Ann - So excited for you!!!! :) I know it will be tough to wait, but I love your positivity and outlook!! :)

Texture Tuesday | To our sweet boy

To our sweet boy,

Happy 11 months birthday to our sweet boy! Our sweet Davis Grey! I cannot believe that we have known about you now for almost 2 months.  How mine and your daddy’s hearts have grown since we first heard about you!  I never knew this is what our hearts were meant to feel.  I catch myself daydreaming about  you.  Dreaming of what you are doing, how you are growing, what you are learning.  I am dreaming of what makes you smile, hearing your laugh, and feeling you in my arms.  I am already preparing our family that it might be months before I am ready to let anyone else hold you!

We are getting your room all ready to go, working on some special projects to remind you daily of how much we love you and how much you are worth waiting for.  Your Daddy and I are talking and dreaming about all our firsts with you.  Our first time meeting you, our first family picture, our first family vacation, our first summer at the lake, our first meltdown in the grocery store (we aren’t naive enough to think these won’t happen!), our first time celebrating your birthday, our first time waking up to your sweet voice.  I don’t think there is a day that goes by that we don’t wish, dream, and hope for you.

Oh the hopes and dreams we have for you sweet Davis! You are truly our wish come true!

Love you,

Mama & Daddy

I Wished for You: An Adoption Story

‘Keep your heart open to dreams. For as long as there’s a dream, there is hope, and as long as there is hope, there is joy in living.”– Anonymous

May 28, 2013 - 2:52 pm

damara - Beautiful firsts to come…thank you for sharing…it is such a joyful part of the journey you are opening up to us and brightens my day.

June 18, 2013 - 9:45 pm

Mollee - So sweet, tears are flowing. So happy for you and your sweet family! God is good, in all things!

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